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My child is turning 18 years old…do I need to become his/her guardian?

By: Nancy Mercer, L.C.S.W.
Executive Director The Arc of Northern Virginia
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As a parent of a child with disabilities, the fear of “what is going to happen when the yellow school bus doesn’t stop here anymore” is a very real one. For many individuals with disabilities and their families, learning to live with a disability starts shortly after birth and then supports are provided in a comprehensive fashion from pre-school programming until 22 years of age. The time of “transition” is defined as starting by age 16 according to the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (I.D.E.A.). During Transition services individuals and families begin to learn that the long term supports their young adult children need in the community are terribly under-funded if they exist at all. It is not unusual for parents to feel as if they must become the guardian for their adult child—to provide the on-going support and guidance where the school system leaves off.

Unfortunately, guardianship although a way for a parent/sibling to take on the responsibilities of deciding where their loved one will live and how meals, personal care, transportation and recreation will be provided and health care decisions made— can come into direct conflict with allowing their loved one with a disability to enjoy their civil liberties and develop their autonomy as an individual.

Guardianship revokes the rights guaranteed to an individual by the Constitution and the Bill of Rights--and should never be entered into lightly if any other reasonable alternative exists. It is important to understand the basics of guardianship:

  1. It is a court-ordered relationship in which one individual becomes the substitute decision maker for another;
  2. Its creation, conduct, and termination, are legislated by the State.
  3. It is rooted in the legal power of the State to protect persons with disabilities.
  4. While it provides protection, it also, by definition, takes away many rights.
  5. The individual is afforded the following rights under guardianship:


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